
Here are some really awesome quotes about play:
"You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation." Plato
"I dream of a day when we say, "Today everyone played so hard!"" Lisa Murphy, the Ooey Gooey Lady
"If animals play, this is because play is useful in the struggle for survival; because play practices and so perfects the skills needed in adult life." Susanna Miller, EdD
Most of the adults in my life encouraged me to be outside and to be active. My parents let me play t-ball, join girl scouts, powder puff football. I loved playing dodge ball and red rover and being outside. I remember my Barbie townhouse that was 3 stories high with an elevator and spent many hours playing with it. My favorite thing on the playground was this HUGE (it was back then anyway) tractor tire. It laid on the ground and when we played hide and seek, we fought over who would hide in it - the first placed "it" would look (hahaha). My parents always took us camping and we stayed on our bikes riding everywhere and exploring everything. During middle and high school, I was always at girl scout camp for 3-4 weeks as a camper, then as a counselor. During my junior year, I became a lifeguard and started teaching swimming lessons. I could never have done these things without the support and permission of my parents and the other adults who worked with these activities.
I feel that play today has changed dramatically from the time I was young. The technology was not available to watch television, movies, and play video games on phones, I-pads, Kindles, etc. We were able to be outside from daylight to dark without fear of predators. We also knew if we did anything we should not be doing, our parents would find out by other adults. So we actually learned self-governance to keep us from getting into trouble (or learned to be really sneaky if we wanted to go to that much trouble). Children today have way too many things to keep them sedentary. Also, parents are content to keep them close for a number of reasons: wary of predators, too busy to do things with them, too lazy to do things, etc.
Parents and other caring adults have to make play important for the whole family. Being active and playing is part of a healthy lifestyle. Adults must realize the importance of play and physical activity for the healthy development of their children and future generations.
Hi Kimberly,
ReplyDeleteI loved drawing hopscotch in chalk as a kid! I enjoyed reading your blog and was reminded about my days at Girl Scout Camp! My cousins had that Barbie townhouse with the elevator. I loved playing with it. I also read your post about relationships and wanted to offer you encouragement and any support as you go through the journey with your son Max. My son was recently diagnosed with Asperger’s and is on medication. It is never an easy decision to put your child on medication but I feel is always good to have an open mind. It is hard because of the side effects medication can cause and all the risks and having child not be themselves. And having to weigh the effects of not taking it and having them struggle and worry about self-esteem issues. There is a lot to consider. We have found a good dose for my son and it has made things better for him. I wish you the best and prayers to you and Max on your journey.
DeleteKimberly MerrittMarch 30, 2014 at 6:20 AM
My prayers are with you also Amy. We have had a few children at the center diagnosed with Asperger's. It takes really strong and loving parents and a good support system to deal day in and day out (along with all other differing abilities). Your writing shows that you are that strong and loving parent. He is a lucky little boy. Thanks for your words of encouragement.
Hello Kimberly,
ReplyDeleteIt is a joy to be able to write on your post. You always share very enlightening things in your blog. The hopscotch by far is one the best photos of implement play examples. I loved hopscotch and you can tell this game was invented outside just by the idea of a rock being the main object to use while playing. I also enjoyed you quote that mention "playing so hard". I had so many moments like that when I was young and sometimes now with my children. It is such a refreshing feeling when you are playing and gets you so comfortable and relaxed. I really enjoyed your post this week and looked forward to the others.